Nowadays, we’re living in a liquid attitude which many things are projected in our interpersonal relationships. People have been used others like an object and when we don’t need it we discarded. For example, I met a girl who I really like and I have started dating her up to I get what I need from her. It could be that I wanted to date her because I was bored being alone and just for having fun and why not have sex and that’s all. I will never dating her again and I will never answer her calls since I got what I wanted from her and she is not useful for me. That is what happening now with some people with their relationships. Love gets hurt with an utilitarian attitude.
What we need to do is to repair “broken hearts”, give tools to others in particular to young people. Teach them how to treat others in their friendly and family relationships even with their coworkers. It does not matter who you are we need to keep in mind that you are a person who deserves respect and be treat as a person not as an object which could be useful to me at a particular moment.
We need to move from the utilitarian attitude to a personalistic attitude where people are treated as a person not as an object.